First Own Less, Then Want Less: Finding Contentment Through Minimalism

"First own less, then want less." This simple yet powerful quote by Joshua Becker captures a truth I've deeply experienced in my own life. For a long time, I didn't quite understand how transformative minimalism could be—not just in terms of physical space, but emotionally and spiritually as well.

I recently thought back to a time when an ex-boyfriend seemed genuinely puzzled by my apparent lack of desire for material things. He frequently asked, "What do you want?" and couldn't understand my answer when I said, "Nothing—I'm happy with what I have." I didn't spend hours browsing Amazon or longing for the latest gadgets. I simply didn't feel a pull toward accumulating more.

The secret was that my journey toward minimalism had changed something profound within me. Once I started letting go of physical items, something interesting happened: I naturally started wanting fewer things. The more I embraced simplicity in my surroundings, the more clarity I gained about what truly matters.

Minimalism taught me to value experiences and relationships over possessions. I stopped scrolling endlessly through online stores, chasing momentary happiness in shiny new purchases. Instead, I found joy and satisfaction in simple moments, connections, and everyday peace.

Interestingly, my ex found my contentment puzzling. He'd frequently ask, "What do you want?" hoping I'd provide some kind of wish list. It puzzled him that I wasn't endlessly browsing Amazon for the latest gadgets or fashion. But the truth was simple: I had discovered genuine contentment, and it didn't come from having more.

There's liberation in recognizing we don't need more to be happy. Decluttering wasn't just an act of tidying up my home—it cleared mental and emotional space, helping me reconnect with my values, faith, and personal well-being.

The truth of Joshua Becker's words echoes in my heart:

"First own less, then want less."

Today, instead of pursuing things, I'm investing in experiences, personal growth, and spiritual peace. And I've never felt richer.

Have you found yourself wanting less after choosing minimalism? I'd love to hear your story.